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In this episode, Carolanne Ashley explores the roots of people-pleasing, tracing its origins to childhood lessons and societal expectations. She shares her personal journey from always putting others first to feeling drained and invisible, and how she discovered the importance of reclaiming her own worth and energy.
Listeners will learn:
- How childhood experiences and cultural messages can shape people-pleasing habits
- The hidden costs of always saying yes and putting others’ needs before your own
- Why your value isn’t defined by how much you do for others
- Practical steps to break free from people-pleasing, including building awareness, setting boundaries, and practicing self-compassion
- A simple daily exercise: Ask yourself three questions before agreeing to anything—Do I want to do this, or am I avoiding conflict? Will this drain or nourish me? Is this aligned with my priorities?
Carolanne also invites listeners to reach out for further tools and support to help break the cycle of people-pleasing. Tune in to start your journey toward honoring yourself and living a more joyful, authentic life.
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